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| Hanuka |
 Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 1:08 pm Post subject: Need halp ASAP!! My father is a total idiot! |
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Man... I can't take it any longer!!!
I've tryed every approach possible, EVERY technique known to the
gr8est psychologysts ever and still I can't talk sense to my &@#*ed up
excuse for a father that I have.
This time his closed mindness went over and beyond the limit that a very
patient man like me can take.
You see, my father is REALLY obsessed with my highschool grades
that it goes above and beyond common sense. hell, it goes even further
then a mental petients' sense...
And me being not-so-good student myself(well.. one of the worst) doesnt
make the situation simpler if ya get wut im saying... 
I'm currently in the 11th class(end of year), 1 more year and Im gone to
the armyz...
The thing is that sinse the 5th grade or so I've been a verrry bad student
to say the least... up until the year ago...
A year ago I've decided that it's study time... didn't work so well as you
might guess by the sheer existense of these post
So there be months that I study and there are the "dry months" that I just
dont have the energy fur that bullshyt...
Anyways, as there is only 1 yar and im gone I'm on full throttle nowz 
But getting back in business is not so easy as an idiot like my father might think...
All the way through my "studies" my father nudged my with his closed mindness
thinking that highschool is like god or something and making illogical
remarks(and acts) such as taking my computer for a certain periods
of time
and acting like shit EVEN THOUGH I WAS STUDYING(but not 24/7 as he wanted...)
Today happened one of many but one of the worst senseless acts that he
could do.
Soonz there be a final test in math, and as I slept thoughout all the years
in those classes I didn't knew much... untill like 3 months ago that I took
a private teacher to teach me... nowz I know ALL the material needed
for the next test.
So I call me dad(he be in america nowz so I can't talk face-to-face with him,
which is quite better then a mano to a-bad-excuse-for-a-father talk as
he just runs away like a stupid sissy when I pin him down with my superb logic )
so I call him right(?), as me need some small funding for me campaign
(which he doesnt resent giving in normal cases) so I ask him..
then he tellz me; "no can do, finish ur tests first, then I wanna see the results
and only THEN we can talk about it"...
so I say him;
"but I already know all what there's to know, plus the test is in a week
AND i'm still studying with me private teacher 2hrs/2 times a week, and
besides; the test results will be given only at the beginning of the next year!
Then he says: "I want you to study 24hrs/day all day long and only after
the tests we can talk"
so i say "WTF?! this doesnt make any sense you fucking idiot!" (MUCH less
aggressive then that, I usually only say him what I really think at the
end of hopeless talks)..
so he says: "I dun wanna talk with you on that tone"(note that I didnt actually
curse at the last sentese, i just made a mild attack on him with a slightly higher
tone of voide)
so I say: "sorry dad... so let me get this straight... you want me to
study all day long a subject that I already know... and to study it
24hrs/day? did i get that right?"
he says: "yes."
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then I hang up.
GEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEZUZZZZZ CHR1S7!!!!!!!!
Please, gimme anything, I tryed all the approaches and need something
to fill the logic bank of his... pleeeeaseeee!!!!!!! 
~tony
p.s. I dun really need that diploma, as I dun want to work for anyone in
the future, I'm thinking ONLY big, I cant spend my years in some company
surving some boss and live in the rut.
besides, I have many ideas for the future(of my income) and I surely dont
need that diploma for this.
But he on the other hand wantsss it.. and when I ask him why he wants it
so badly he says "just so"... so I be needing to spend all those years just
so he can have his "just so"??! wtf?!
And he doesnt even wanna talk logically about it... hell, I doubt that he
even knows the concept of "logic"...
Sometimes I feel sorry for him,
but most of the times I just hate him.
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| 425 Chaotic Requisition |
| Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 1:45 pm Post subject: |
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A lot of us never get along well with our peers. Never well at all because we want our freedom but lack the needs to exercise that freedom (money, experience, education etc). But there is one thing and only one thing I can help you with Hanuka to aid you and your life:
You have plenty of time left on the clock.
Do what I do. I was supposed to go to University after college, and I never did any work becasue I was lazy. But when my Dad stopped listening to me and showing interest, I realised that I was on my own in life. And that is true. You are alone and you have to survive by yourself. I did well in college, well reasonably well. But my Dad kicked me out of my home about a year ago and I had to stop doing Maths and Physics (before I started it) which is what I realised I needed to help me build my time machine in my future.
So here I am with nothing, had been on the dole. And guess what? I work in a factory. But I am going to work and work and work and save every last penny to go to college, and finish what has yet to start.
Luckily, my government in the UK will sponsor my University education (because I want to teach physics eventually). So my costs are fine for that era.
It will take time, and more time. And a lot of hard wor, but it will help me achieve my wish, my to be reality. I can then work on my theories having the math and physics knowledge behind me.
Use that example of me to guide you to, wherever it leads.
Contrary to popular belief a dream isn't a dream, its a reality that only you can make. So find that reality, and create it Hanuka. And remember that you, and only you can make it. You don't need money to succeed, you need strength and devotion and the know that you will succeed.
Your father cannot help. His life is in full swing. Yours is starting. So start it yourself and remember, only you can help you.
PS. A bit of advice, I wouldn't join the army. War is not the way. I am a man of peace.
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| Hanuka |
| Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 1:59 pm Post subject: |
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Lolz, the thing is: currently at me free time I have absolutely NOTHING
to do around tha house, from time to time me and me mates go hang around
but when me comes home it all sums up to me gamez and working on
my campaign (which will be generating quite nicely if my father weren't
such a pain in the butt).
As for afterschool army is defenetly the way for me, I hate peace, I think
that its a dull era between wars when nothing interesting is happening...
man I wanna shoot some people already... 
And as for actual education I dun belive in orgenisations such as schools
or universities(universities are quite better then school but in the end it's
the teacher's descigion on what exactly you study - not yours.
Depending on the years to come I guess that I'll take a few short
courses about business and be over with it and be free to move along
to the Freelance business world(or acting )
Eather way, I think school is very useless to me and no matter what happens
a man shoulnt be so illogical as my father, its a crime against sense!!! 
Cheers!
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| 425 Chaotic Requisition |
| Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 2:07 pm Post subject: |
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No problem. But consider what I said. I wouldn't join the army if I were you.
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| Hanuka |
| Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 2:14 pm Post subject: |
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Why would one keep a tiger from killing?
it's just so cruel!!!(fur tha` tiger offcourse )
Same with me, I like battlez, always liked and always will.
I have no worries being a KIA, at least I'll know that I gave my bast shot and
wasnt quick enough to dodge that bullets
Give me ONE reason why a man like myself shoun't join the armyz? (its
illegal to not join the army in israel once youre 18, but I still have an option
to be like one of those sissies at the bease - which I dont want!)
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| Harold14370 |
| Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 2:23 pm Post subject: |
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| Did I understand you to say you are studying 4 hours a week? And your dad won't fork over some spending money? Oh, the humanity. |
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| Hanuka |
| Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 2:31 pm Post subject: |
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| Harold14370 wrote: |
| Did I understand you to say you are studying 4 hours a week? And your dad won't fork over some spending money? Oh, the humanity. |
No... that just being one example to demonstrate his stupidety.
I mean, I'm not gonna study 24hrs/day anyways, hell im not even gonna
study a hour a day!
But that doesnt mean that I need to waste my time ovar the computer
while I can make use of my time and develop my campaigns...
Geeze, you make me sound like a spoilt brat or something!
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| Theoryofrelativity |
| Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 2:44 pm Post subject: |
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What a spoiled little bratt you are hanuka
You have a dad who CARES about you and gives a damn not only about whether you live or die but about the quality of YOUR life.
HIS life is not enriched with you passing this test, but YOURS is, whether you realise it or not, and you telling him you KNOW the subject already isn't carrying any weight due to your previous piss poor performances so your dad is pushing you in the RIGHT direction.
My dad did not give a shit about me and my bro, didn't care if we lived or died and him hanging my bro upside down over a motorway bridge by his ankles at age 5 kinda confirmed that one!
Be grateful your dad loves you and thank him for the time and money he's put into YOU since birth and repay him by studying and doing well.
I was surprised when you said you were a bad student, because despite your VAST immaturity I do detect intelligence. Use it to accept that good exam results help more than they hinder.
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| 425 Chaotic Requisition |
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| Theoryofrelativity wrote: |
My dad did not give a shit about me... |
I got that impression when I read the start of your post here ToR. It also explains your, affinity, towards caps lock and your 'forward' approach to converstaions. And Hanuka if you press that refresh button one more time I'm going to slap you. 
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| Theoryofrelativity |
| Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 2:47 pm Post subject: |
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| Harold14370 wrote: |
| Did I understand you to say you are studying 4 hours a week? And your dad won't fork over some spending money? Oh, the humanity. |
F*cking hilarious isn't it!
Age 15 I was buying my own sanitary pads out of my £1 a week pocket money, age 16, my own clothes, bus fares, entertainments out of £5 pocket money (a week) and this is after having to clean house from top to toe.
Then age 18 and working had to give mum 50% of earnings in rent, money towards car repayments and pay for everything related to myself MYSELF.
Where do these privilaged kids get off whining like this?
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| 425 Chaotic Requisition |
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Your sounding like your parents. And their parents. And their parents. And their parents.
 . Hahahhahah ooh how time is a funny thing.
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| Hanuka |
| Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 2:54 pm Post subject: |
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Intelligence doesn't mean that I HAVE to be a scientist at proffession..
I'll let others do the hard work for me, I have my way, he has his. and he
wants to preach HIS way into MINE!
What, you think that I dun aim for success?!
Many people aim to work FOR the man because they want to, or most of
the time because they fail to be man so they have to stick it up to him.
I chose the risky way(it doesnt essentially have to be harder) and I'm gonna stick with it.
And how exactly can you say that making your own son do USELESS things
such as studying what you already KNOW is an act of compassion??
He is wasting my precious time and forcing me to bum all day long
when I can make use of my time!
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| And Hanuka if you press that refresh button one more time I'm going to slap you. |
w00t??? whyyyyzz???? 
I dun pressz it, others do!
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| Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 3:10 pm Post subject: |
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| 425 Chaotic Requisition wrote: |
Your sounding like your parents. And their parents. And their parents. And their parents.
. Hahahhahah ooh how time is a funny thing. |
Aye, youngsters get more perks as the time passes... ahh the marvelous New Age
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Yeah, my favourites 2x Claymores, Overkill and extreme conditioning.
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| Theoryofrelativity |
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Your sounding like your parents. And their parents. And their parents. And their parents.
. Hahahhahah ooh how time is a funny thing. |
No, I am NOT sounding like MY parents.
I was NOT encouraged or pushed to do anything, I had to do it all myself.
I take back the intelligence part of my earlier post Hanuka, you really are an idiot and yes your dad is an idiot for believing you are capable of being anything else.
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