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| Theoryofrelativity |
 Posted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 9:51 am Post subject: I had a lap dance |
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Lap dancing is not quite the booby jiggling dancing around the chaps (ladies) knees entertainment that it is reported generally to be, quite a bit more takes place which brings to mind
Is lap dancing now an accepted form of prostitution?
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| marnixR |
| Posted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 11:35 am Post subject: |
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i don't know - is laptop dancing ?
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i feel u should only lap dance ur husband cus a woman is a precious pearl and should not be touched unless by the one she belongs too which is her husband
but i guess in western countries everything is ok  |
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| 425 Chaotic Requisition |
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That is very understanding of you, but a lot of people think it is degrading. Most women do it in the West for fun, if they like you, and don't like doing it if they don't. Quite natural really. But yes I have had one, £10 at my local strip club (bare naked) and you get rubbed against and everything put in your face. You can't touch but some girls expect a little oral contact. not that I did when I went. I couldn't do that, it did not feel right. Its sort of half prostitution, maybe.
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| Hanuka |
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I wanna, I wanna, I wannaaa!!!!
Ain't old enough to get one tho... 
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| Pong |
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Never had one. I'd find it extremely embarrassing, and probably laugh.
It's a way to circumvent the law isn't it? Allow brothels and lap dancing would vanish I'll bet.
A few of my local municipalities passed bylaws to tame the strip bars: the law said you can't show pubic hair. So guess what, all the ladies shaved. Then - and I'm serious - they were sticking pubic wigs on for a natural look many customers preferred. We had lady police officers checking that the wigs were legit. |
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| KALSTER |
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| Pong wrote: |
Never had one. I'd find it extremely embarrassing, and probably laugh.
It's a way to circumvent the law isn't it? Allow brothels and lap dancing would vanish I'll bet.
A few of my local municipalities passed bylaws to tame the strip bars: the law said you can't show pubic hair. So guess what, all the ladies shaved. Then - and I'm serious - they were sticking pubic wigs on for a natural look many customers preferred. We had lady police officers checking that the wigs were legit. |
How ridiculous can the law get? 
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| i_feel_tiredsleepy |
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Geez, lapdancing is rather tame as far as strip club performances go, there's a stripper at Club Amazon in Montreal, and the highlight of her act is when she masturbates with various fruit and vegetables, her stage name is Tangerine Dream.
While some strippers will rub against a person until they ejaculate, the classier "gentlemen's clubs" don't usually practice this.
I don't think legalizing prostitution would destroy the allure of lap dances either. For one, it is much safer, secondly it takes place in a secure space for both the customer and the stripper, and thirdly it doesn't carry the same social stigma that may hold a person back from prostitution.
I actually believe that the prostitution business wouldn't even increase if it was legalized. If someone is willing to go to a prostitute, then you can get one in any major city anywhere in the world with minimal effort, I don't think the fear of a night in jail and a fine for solicitation is holding many people back. |
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| BumFluff |
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The girls who give lap dances do whatever it takes to turn the people they are givign lap dances on. They give them a show so they'll come back. If that envolves rubbing their various parts against your various parts to earn thier money and keep you coming back then that's what they do.
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| BumFluff |
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| i_feel_tiredsleepy wrote: |
Geez, lapdancing is rather tame as far as strip club performances go, there's a stripper at Club Amazon in Montreal, and the highlight of her act is when she masturbates with various fruit and vegetables, her stage name is Tangerine Dream.
While some strippers will rub against a person until they ejaculate, the classier "gentlemen's clubs" don't usually practice this.
I don't think legalizing prostitution would destroy the allure of lap dances either. For one, it is much safer, secondly it takes place in a secure space for both the customer and the stripper, and thirdly it doesn't carry the same social stigma that may hold a person back from prostitution.
I actually believe that the prostitution business wouldn't even increase if it was legalized. If someone is willing to go to a prostitute, then you can get one in any major city anywhere in the world with minimal effort, I don't think the fear of a night in jail and a fine for solicitation is holding many people back. |
Or you could just go to an escort, which is legal in Canada, and not go to jail at all.
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| Theoryofrelativity |
| Posted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 11:48 pm Post subject: |
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It's even more explicit than I thought then in some cases, so indeed it is a sort of non participatory sexual service you are paying for.
In the Uk there is a club for ladies with naked male lap dancers. Anyone know what they do?
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| Pong |
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| Theoryofrelativity wrote: |
| Anyone know what they do? |
Yes: Viagra. |
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| GrowlingDog |
| Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 2:20 am Post subject: |
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Aren't we all prostituting ourselves for something? Or do you mean just for sex? Oh, hang on there are plenty of people doing that too but they aint hookers. Pay rise for Miss Smith thank you. 
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| GrowlingDog |
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Umm, to the question though. Yes i have had plenty of lapdances ( i have rather wi9ld past) I have had them with girlfriends, i have shared them with mates, i have had them go a lot further than a lapdance and i have enjoyed EVERY single one of them. I see no harm in it. I am single and have no kids, woo hoo!
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| Theoryofrelativity |
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| GrowlingDog wrote: |
| Umm, to the question though. Yes i have had plenty of lapdances ( i have rather wi9ld past) I have had them with girlfriends, i have shared them with mates, i have had them go a lot further than a lapdance and i have enjoyed EVERY single one of them. I see no harm in it. I am single and have no kids, woo hoo! |
If your gf had private lap dance from fit naked male would you still see it as harmless and encourage her to enjoy herself?
Where is the 'fine line' between lapdancers and infidelity in general drawn or is the case that as no emotional investment is made with lapdancer, it is more acceptable to be physical? Just sex etc.
When you say it went further than lapdance what do you mean and also would it be ok for your gf to go further than lapdance with a man.
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